i was reading one of my friends blog which leads me to a forum regarding Inter-Religious Marriages.
In my personal opinion I believe that love has no boundaries, be it race, heritage, culture or in this case religion. but marriage, is a totally different thing. as love is recommended but not necessary in marriage. Though in casses inter-religious marriages cannot occur due to religious restriction. I believe inter-religious love can exist.
I am not familiar with Christianity, so I will not go there. However I am a Muslim and as so I will go deeper here.
In Islam Inter-Religious Marriages does exist. But there are conditions for doing such. A muslim man may marry a non-muslim, in this case, each professes to each own faith and the husband cannot force his wife to convert. For a muslim woman however, she is not allowed to marry a non-muslim, this can be explained that Islam teaches that the husband/father is the head of a family. so the only way for a muslim woman to marry a non-muslim is that the husband converts to Islam or she converts to the religion of her husband to be. However, in the later solutuion for a muslim woman to marry a non-muslim she will be conducting apostasy.
another thing, which is regarding the quote below from the forum.
“Quit your church and go Bugis Kuan Yin temple and pray to him…
Then go tell the girl you like her and you have quit your religion for her…”
now the question is if this person is so easily swayed to leave God(religion) for a girl. how easily will this person be swayed to leave this girl another girl or something else. Taking God so lightly of a matter. This definitely shows ones level of faith and how much you can trust such a person. so i advice the girl don’t go for him.
all truth be from God,
and mistakes be from me…
salam
September 21, 2007 at 2:06 am |
so my question was being noticed,i am actually expecting an answer from a christian…anyway i agree with you that love has no boundary.I am just curious why they mention about certain church does not allow them to be in love with non-christian,if its only certain church…is it regarding the whole christian religion or only the church belief?
September 21, 2007 at 2:16 am |
i think jason will be a more appropriate person to ask.
September 21, 2007 at 2:22 am |
yeah,hopefully when he read ur this post he will answer it
September 23, 2007 at 4:28 pm |
Ok time for me to answer liao. For my religion it is not advisible to marry someone of another faith. I think that part of the Qur’an is similar to the bible in that aspect.
Speaking personally i will not marry someone not of my religion/ faith in that sense. So lets say if i meet a girl who is not from my religion, and i tell her that if we are to get married then she must be Christian right, then she agree and become Christian.
This brings up another question. Did she convert to Christianity because of God and through that man God relationship love me? Or is she just being a Christian just to marry me?
If i ever marry a non Christian, this would be my headache.
A relationship in my opinion should be one of a God centered one. If my partner doesn’t love God first before me. Then there is no basis for my relationship.
I think its very hard to explain like that, if we have a msn conversation it would be easier to show our point of views.
The whole thing about the church belief right, its written in the bible le ^^
July 12, 2009 at 3:03 am |
i am married to a Muslim man who has been presuring me to join Islam. I have been a Christian all my life and this is difficult for me. I miss my Catholic Church and i make sure that dont miss my daily prayers. Isnt it possible to co exist. Can anyone help
August 5, 2009 at 12:48 am |
can you tell me d verse in quran which says that it is ok for a hindu woman to marry a muslim guy n d religion accepts them..
August 5, 2009 at 12:50 am |
can u tell me dat verse in quran which says dat it is ok for a muslim guy to marry a hindu woman n still b a part of the religion..
August 5, 2009 at 1:02 am |
i am sorry, this post was written along time ago to address some of my frens. and it has been awhile since i re read it.
it has come to my attention that a muslim man may oni marry a Christian or a Jew. it will take me abit of time to find a verse or hadith it is 1am here in singapore
August 5, 2009 at 1:05 am |
in fact i will have to re edit this post soon in light or my errors