look at yourself and compare yourself with others. surely there are those that are greater than us and those that we are better than. but to be sure that all man are born equal. we are balanced with advantages and disadvantages that differs from each other. yet we are all of the same value initially.
but what makes us different is time. not how much we have spend, but how we have spent it. those of us who find themselves at a disadvantage are among the people that have wasted the time that is given. how we live our lives determines our state of happiness and the happiness of those around us.
At times we find ourself given a gift, present, a treat or so. there are times we are reluctant or refused to receive such kindness. think, why were we reluctant or refused? it could be from among a range of reasons, but be sure what you feel is not guilt. guilt of not giving enough, of knowing that i have given so little that what i am given is too much. ask yourself if what you have given to the people around you is enough? ask what have you have done to help? to change the world for the better? there are those that say that what we do is to small to be noticed, or that what can my contributions do to change the state of the world, i tell you now that every cent and effort that you give to the world makes a different. rain can never occur if not for the presents of each individual droplet of water.
life is a process in which we are never alone, just that we are blinded by our own manifestations of loneliness. There is a different between being alone and felling lonely, one is that you really have no one beside you, another is that you just think you are. we should treasure those that are among us and take care of them. they might not appreciate it, but if we do not care, are we not being just like them.
we need to start somewhere. we might not be helped, but we can help others. if you say that it is not fair, why should i help when others leave me, you should think that the reason they did not help you could be because no one help them. so when will this end? it will end when you make a difference no matter how small.
so weight the happiness of yourself and the people that you have made happy, for that is your value.
thats all for now…